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Learning to draw the curtains....for your own peace.

 Yes, I am aware that you must have always heard and spoken about ' DRAWING A LINE'.  " We know where to draw a line in our relationships." "This is my limit to listen and I've drawn a line there." "We've decided to draw a line and not talk about this matter beyond that." "My kids are not allowed to argue further and cross that line drawn" Over the years of mothering ,spousing , struggling , loving , failing , winning , contemplating , believing , failing again, winning again and still doing everything over and over again .....one thing that I have achieved, is the wisdom to accept and trust that " Drawing a line NEVER works ". Drawing the curtains DOES"." Alright, I'll  not play with your thoughts too much and come straight to try answering your question : HOW IS DRAWING THE CURTAINS DIFFRENT FROM DRWAWING A LINE? When you draw a line or in other words decide not to bother, not to think, not to pay attenti...
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Procrastination-The Beast

No wonder why I chose such a topic for this blog. Procrastination for me presently is what I have been doing after my second blog until now. Thinking and thinking about writing on this topic and just not picking up the pen. You must have noticed that most of the topics I have been covering in my blogs are the ones I personally have struggled with or rather dealing with at present.(Check out the link down below if you haven't read 👇 ) https://thatevolver.blogspot.com/2018/06/being-presentable-in-four-easy-ways.html https://thatevolver.blogspot.com/2018/07/the-after-school-scuffle.html Procrastination is also one such pain in my life which is hard to throw off. Yet, I am trying to overcome this bad habit and hoping for being successful. Ever since I was a kid, I have been a person who easily puts off things for later or future and then rarely or never ever doing them. Back then I had elders around me like my parents and teachers who pushed me to finish any task on time whether I l...

The After School Scuffle.

  Disclaimer: This blog is about and for the moms of school going kids.So, if fathers, bachelors or spinsters feel the need to skip it, they are most welcome. Although, all the above mentioned people will truly be appreciated if they spare time for this blog and realize the struggle and juggle of moms in this crucial part of their day. Not to forget the mothers, I hope this helps in some way. So let's jump in..... 😊 Before being a mother, no girl had ever known how is it being pulled into five different directions and trying to embrace it at the same time. 😆 I am no exception. So here, for the first time I unveil a part of my life for those who don't know me. Yes, I am a mother of two cute faces and yes, I have been trying to survive and embrace the chaos for almost a decade. Sounds similar? Ahhh! I know. 😐 The title of the blog says, "The after school scuffle or struggle in other words". We as moms always have a hard time figuring out the best routine for o...

Being presentable in four easy ways.

Top of Form Bottom of Form Lets Hymn Have you ever wondered, why is it that you meet some people only for a while and you end up thinking nothing but just good things about them till you meet next or never ever meet? The only reason for this is that the person you met was so presentable to you, that whenever he/she crosses your mind, you will remember him/her for good. Well, at such a point, you might wonder if you can return the favour in the similar gesture or can be of the same perspective for someone else. Now, if you are a person who struggles with the stress and nervousness of meeting someone and worried about your impression after the same, here are some easy and effective ways for you to try that always work. 1. MINDSET : This is the first and most essential step to do anything in the world. I am not saying that   you have to be in the right mindset to be presentable as meeting someone can not always be planned. You can come across anyone anytime. You ne...