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Lets Hymn

Have you ever wondered, why is it that you meet some people only for a while and you end up thinking nothing but just good things about them till you meet next or never ever meet?

The only reason for this is that the person you met was so presentable to you, that whenever he/she crosses your mind, you will remember him/her for good. Well, at such a point, you might wonder if you can return the favour in the similar gesture or can be of the same perspective for someone else.

Now, if you are a person who struggles with the stress and nervousness of meeting someone and worried about your impression after the same, here are some easy and effective ways for you to try that always work.

1.MINDSET: This is the first and most essential step to do anything in the world. I am not saying that   you have to be in the right mindset to be presentable as meeting someone can not always be planned. You can come across anyone anytime. You need to train your mind to be available and welcoming to a person,no matter how stuck  you are in something else. Such situations may not always come with prior announcements
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You need to see inside yourself for how ready are you for such a thing. You need to gain strength and believe that you are no less than anyone in this world. One thing I always do in such situations is ‘TO EXPECT THE WORST AND BE READY FOR IT’.
Yes, this might sound a little weird to you but if you imagine what can go wrong, you will be prepared to make it right. Trust me, this tip is successful , no matter how unusual it may sound.
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2. DRESS UP: Dress up for no one, but yourself. You will undoubtedly feel ready for anything. Find out a the trend if you are not too much of a ‘dressing up’ person. Do not over or under dress yourself. Finally, do not forget to wear one most important thing..... ’YOUR CONFIDENCE’.
If you are liking yourself, nothing else matters.

3. THE TALKING: Always greet and converse with a smile and you will never look nervous. Also,try not moving your hands too much while talking. Use the words please, sorry and thank you as and when required. Try not to speak over anyone and keep your conversations nice and short.

4. OFFER: Do not hesitate to offer whatever you can . Like food if guests are there or any help but only if it is not making you bend backwards. 
Remember your priorities always and create a balance. There is a difference between a slave and a host. 
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Behave only in such a manner that can be continued in future meetings. Your fluctuating  behavior can ruin your presentability.

Hope you liked these tips and will give some a try. If you have some more ideas on being presentable, I would love to read in the comments.

 Have a great life. 😊

-Shipra P Vasisth

 


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